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Days and the events leading up taking Jacob Jr to him moms on July 1st through July 31st 2010
June 25th 2010
I decided that since Janna has no contact information (home phone or cell phone) I would get Jacob Jr a cell phone to take with him over to his mom’s so I’d have a way of always getting a hold of him.
I ordered Jacob a cell phone from AT&T.com on my account so he was able to always contact me anytime he wanted while at his mom’s (and so I can contact him anytime as well).
I ordered Jacob Jr’s phone from AT&T.com on June 25th, 2010, it was shipped out on June 26th, 2010
Jacob Jr’s phone arrived in the mail on June 28th 2010.
The phone was the Blue Pantech Reveal and it was bought brand new.
From June 28th, 2010 to June 30th, 2010, Myself, Phuong and Sarah Tran (Jacob’s Godparents) went though all the phone features with Jacob Jr so he would know how to work things on his own. In a short time, he was calling other family members (Heather Davis, Amanda Holland and few other family members with the phone. Not only was able to understand how to make calls, he was also able to text message as well.
In such a short time, he got it all down. He understand how to make a call, end a call even send text messages. He was even able on his own to change ringtones and all the other features without any help from me.
We all (Me, Sarah and Phuong Tran) explain how the phone wasn’t a toy and he was to treat it with respect. As we watched him the next couple days, he was doing a good job taking care of it. For the most part, Jacob knew how to operate his phone on his own and didn’t need any help for us.
Jacob calls me on June 29th, 2010 @ 3:18pm while I was at work and he was with Uncle Phuong. He left me a voice mail.
July 1st, 2010 @6pm I drop Jacob off with him mom from the parking lot at HEB in Elgin, Texas.
Jacob’s Call log (with a record of this all on my iphone)
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Jacob calls me on July 1st, 2020 @ 9:44pm (3 hours after I have already dropped him off with his mom (Janna Cashion). I was already in bed, so when he called he left me a voice mail to call him back.
I call Jacob back on July 2, 2010 and talked a little while. He told me he wasn’t feeling so good and I ask what was the matter? All he could say was it felt like he was getting a cold and he felt really cold.
We talk back and forth from July 2 to July 3rd several time throughout these two days. He sounded like he did have a cold from me hearing him on the phone. I could tell his voice was really scratchy and his nose was running. I ask if he was talking medicine and he said his mom was giving him motrin and benadrly. Ask him if he was feeling any better and he said not really.
I tried contacting Jacob on the 4th and 5th of July but I didn’t get no answer each time and left him voice mails to call me when he can because I wanted to know if he was feeling any better.
I didn’t hear anything from him till July 6th @ 10:47am. (I was at work and was unable to pick up the phone). He left me a voice mail and he was telling me that he was sick and he ask me, when I come and pick him up, Can I please take him to the doctor.
I tried calling on my lunch break but didn’t get an answer and left a voice mail for him to call me back.
Jacob Jr calls me again (while I am at work) @ 2:08pm and was unable to pick up the phone due to me being at work. He leaves me a voice mail that really upsets me. He’s crying, he sounds really sick and telling me he love me and misses me and needs to talk.
I call him the minute I get off work around 3:30pm on July 6th, 2010. I finally got to talk to him and he tells me he really feels bad. I ask him why your mom hasn’t taken you to see a doctor yet since you have been feeling bad for several days? He told me -word for word- “I don’t want to waste my mom’s money.” I ask him, where did he hear that from? he couldn’t give me an answer and at that point I ask Jacob to please put his mom on the phone (Janna Cashion). I ask Janna where did he get “I don’t want to waste my mom’s money” from? All she could tell me was he was making that up. She said it’s a bug going around. I ask her to tell me when he started feeling bad. She told me around the 4th of July, he was throwing up and was unable to keep anything down. I ask what medicines are you giving him? She told me she was giving him Children motrin and Benadrly. I got on the internet and come to find out that children Tylenol, Children motrin and children Benadryl all had been recalled nation wide. I explain to her that these medicines were under a nation wide recall and that you couldn’t even buy these
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medicines in stores due to the recall. She said it was some of her daughter’s old medicine and that the medicine was fine. I then ask her to please check the LOT number on the medicine to make sure and she said I was making a big fuss out of nothing. She then come to tell me that he has had high fever from the 4th to the 6th of July and it would go down a little but then come right back up and most of the time it stayed at or around 101˚ and got as high as for 102˚ for several hours.
At this point I was mad because she hadn’t taking him to the doctor just to make sure things were fine. I told her she can even take him to the emergency room to get checked and just make sure he was fine. She had no excuse not to take him. When I dropped Jacob Jr off with her on July 1st, I gave her my extra set of heath insurance cards for Jacob Jr. All she would have had to pay was $40 co-pay and I would have been more then happy to pay half of it or even all of it just to have the peace of mind that he was ok and it was just a bug.
At this point she was yelling at me telling me I’m being over protective of Jacob and blowing everything out of proportion.
I told her that a high fever that wont go away usually means that your body telling you that something is wrong.
I was really mad at this point just because she was blowing it off as though it was just a common cold. I told her, you have his health insurance card from Aetna, take him to the doctor (weather it be a doctor’s office or the emergency room just to get checked out and make sure everything is ok. she still completely refused to take him to the doctor. I told her, it was going to be like this - either she was going to take him to the doctor or I was coming to get him and take him to the doctor myself. She completely blow up on me telling me that Jacob was in her care right now, she knows whats best and if I did show up to get him she would have me arrested for trespassing. Last thing she told me (or was yelling at me) was she was his mother too and that she knows whats best for him and told me to get over it and hung up on me.
It took me repeatedly calling Jacob’s number over and over about 10 times till Jacob finally answered the phone. I told him that I was just worried about him and wanted him to see a doctor just to make sure everything was ok. Right in the middle of us talking (Myself and Jacob Jr) he cuts in and says my mom says I have to go and he hung up before I could get another word in. I tried for the next 20 minutes calling him, but the phone must have been broken or turned of because when I dialed his number it wouldn’t ring, it would just go straight to voice mail. I left him several messages asking him to please call me. I never heard from him again.
I tried calling him number on July 7th, 8th, and 9th. I called at least once in the morning, afternoon and evening on the 7th, 8th and 9th but never got an answer and the phone always went straight to voice mail. I left several messages asking him to please call me as soon as possible.
On the 7th of July I just figure Janna was mad at me and just ignoring me because of the argument we have gotten into. Needless to say, I was completely upset and
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worrying by the evening time on July 8th when I still haven’t heard anything from Jacob Jr or Janna on the well being of Jacob Jr.
On July 8th, I was ready to hop in my truck over there to check on him myself (I would have done it regardless if I got arrested for trespassing or not) But the address that Janna had give me to where she was staying was not an address. 6201 Farm Road 141, Giddings, Texas. 78942 is the address she gave me and have a saved voice mail from Janna giving me that address. I was mad to find out I couldn’t even go check on him myself because I really don’t have no earthly idea where she could be. I called the Lee county sheriff's dept. and told them my story and what’s going on and gave the sheriff’s office the address that Janna had giving me and the sheriff’s office told me that it was not a correct address and they couldn’t find it anywhere in their data base. I tried doing a search with google maps and a couple other online map sites with the address and it all told me the same thing, Address could not be found. The sheriff’s office ask me if there was some other place she could be staying with Jacob Jr. I told them that the only person I could think of was her mother’s house. So I gave the sheriff’s office Janna’s mom’s address : 304 county road A, Lexington, Tx. 78747. They said they would send a sheriff out there to check and see if Jacob Jr was there and if he was there they would check the well being of the child.
I got a call back from the Lee County sheriff’s office about an hour or later and the sheriff dept. told me that Janna or Jacob Jr was not there and they talk to Diann Stutes (Janna’s mom) and she said told the sheriff’s dept. that Janna, Justin (Janna’s boyfriend), Allyssa (her other kid) and Jacob Jr left to go to the coast (Corpus Christi) on July 7th 2010.
My first thought was - Jacob Jr wasn’t feeling good the last time I talked to him, why in the hell would they go to the coast with him being sick?
At this point I didn’t know anything that was going on and it was driving me insane not know. I still repeatedly kept calling Jacob Jr’s phone and never getting an answer (and the phone would always go straight to voice mail. I still left messages to please call me as soon as possible just to let me know he was ok and at the least, feeling better.
I called Heather Davis on July 8th at about 5:48pm She is (Our Friend and the person Jacob is getting tutoring by) And she told me she has been trying to reach them for over a week to set up his tutoring session (was an order of the court that Janna take Jacob Jr to “at least” one tutoring session a week while he was staying with her). But Heather told me she left messages asking for a call back to set up the time and place of tutoring but never got a responses from Janna.
I called Amanda Holland also on the 8th of July about 6:30pm (Also a friend of mine and she is married to Janna’s brother, Randy Holland). I ask her if she heard from Janna or Jacob and if there was any way I can get in contact with Janna? She said she had no idea how to get a hold of them and she (as well) tried calling Jacob Jr’s phone and didn’t get an answer and she left a voice mail to call her back as soon as he can.
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I also tried calling Janna’s mom’s number but could never reach anyone. It would ring a couple of times and someone would pick up the phone and then hang it back up. I tried several times with no luck getting a hold of anyone.
By now it’s the 9th of July and still haven’t heard anything from nobody. From the 6th of July to the 10th of July I still haven’t heard anything from nobody. At about 12:30pm I get a voice mail from Jacob Jr calling me from Janna’s mom’s house. Needless to say, I was happy to hear his voice and find out that he was ok. From the message he left me, he still sounded sick, but he didn’t sound as bad as what he did before. I was just getting off work and called him back as soon as I got home. I ask where has he been? and he couldn’t give me a straight answer, just telling me he caught some fish, he loved and miss me and that he was feeling better.
I ask him what happen to his phone and he said it’s broke. I ask him how did it get broke and he couldn’t give me an answer to that either, he just said the phone stop working and the phone wouldn’t turn on anymore. I ask for him to please put his mom on the phone and she completely refuse to talk to me. I could hear her in the back ground telling Jacob to tell me “She don’t want to talk to me. I ask Jacob to please tell his mom that when they meet Heather Davis for the tutoring to please bring his phone so I can get it and get it replaced. I heard Janna in the back ground saying “You will get the phone when you get it”, (saying it very rudely). I ask Jacob where the phone was right now and he said at maw maw’s house. (I’m guess that would be Justin’s mother’s house. He said that his phone was there since it stop working. I still wanted to talk to Jacob, but he told me that his mom said he had to hang up because they were leaving Janna’s mom’s house and going home. I told him to please call me again soon, and we hung up.
My thoughts of Jacob Jr’s phone breaking is, it’s funny the phone worked just fine and I talked to Jacob Jr once a day, then on July 6th, Me and Janna get in a heated argument on the phone about weather or not Jacob needs to see a doctor because he was sick. Right after the argument me and Janna had on the phone was the point where I couldn’t reach him on his phone any longer. And didn’t hear from him again till July 10th when he call me from Janna’s mom’s house. I don’t believe what so ever it’s coincidence that on the day me and Janna has a heated argument on the phone and then all of a sudden, his phone becomes broke and don’t work no more. I am sorry but this completely sounds FISHY to me!
Mine and Jacob’s Call log from June 29th, 2010 to July 10th 2010
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June 29, 2010 outgoing call @ 12:44pm lasted for 7 seconds
incoming call @ 3:16pm Missed call
outgoing call @ 8:36pm lasted 3 seconds
outgoing call @ 5:38pm call cancelled
outgoing call @ 5:37pm lasted 2 seconds
outgoing call @ 4:50pm lasted 23 seconds
July 1st, 2010 @ 6pm Drop Jacob off with his mom.
July 1, 2010 @5:52pm incoming call lasted for 8 minutes
@ 9:43pm incoming call (missed)
July 2, 2010
@8:35pm outgoing call lasted 3 minutes
@8:32pm outgoing call lasted 2 minutes
@4:32pm outgoing call lasted 37 seconds
@4:34pm incoming call lasted 4 minutes
July 3,2010
@8:31pm incoming call last 39 seconds
@1:03pm incoming call last 1 minute
@8:09am incoming call last 4 minutes
July 6, 2010
@ 10:46am incoming call Missed call (Jacob Jr left me a voice mail saying he was sick and wanted me to take him to the doctor)
@12:05am outgoing call lasted 8 minutes
@2:08pm incoming call missed call (Jacob Jr left me a voice mail crying and was completely upset)
@3:40pm outgoing call lasted 6 minutes
@4:22pm outgoing call lasted 9 minutes (this was me & Janna having an argument on the phone all about Jacob Jr being sick)
@4:45pm outgoing call lasted 5 minutes
@4:51pm outgoing call lasted 3 minutes
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July 7, 2010
@ 12:11pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail. (I left him a voice mail)
@3:35pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail (I left another voice mail)
@ 7:32pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail (I left another voice mail)
July 8th, 2010
@ 5:37pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail (I left a voice mail to please call me)
@ 6:05pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail
@7:55pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail
July 9th, 2010
@8:44am outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail
@12:16pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail
@ 3:37pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail (left him a voice mail to please call me.)
July 9th, 2010
@6:24pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail
@7:39pm outgoing call no answer / straight to voice mail
and like I said, I didn’t hear from him again till July 10th at about 12:30 pm when Jacob Jr called me from Janna’s mom’s house in Lexington Texas.
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